That depends. It's admirable that you're capable of being flexible, but that doesn't mean denying yourself every time.

I'm not saying to push your opinion on everyone. But discuss it. You're your own person, and Carnelian will shine the most when you do what you can.

That said... do you want to tell me how things went for you, in the game? I can't say talking ever helped me, but it helps some people. I always approached Crown for sparring together when I was upset.